The Reasons Cheating Husbands Give For Cheating And The Reasons Women Give For Their Husbands Cheating Are Different As Night And Day

I recently took an informal survey around the internet on cheating husbands and their reasons for cheating from the womans perspective. These are quite different than the cheating husbands reasons for cheating. Their is a whole chapter in the ebook that deals with reasons men cheat.

The top reason women gave for husbands to cheat on their wives is they are not happy at home. They feel their is something better for them out there. Actually I was kind of surprised that women picked this one. Its also on most husbands reasons for looking for a woman outside the home.

One that is not surprising is sex. Women feel that a lot of cheating husbands are just dogs and cannot control their sexual urges. Along with this I heard husbands are bored in the bedroom. This one caught me kind of by surprise coming from women. If men are bored in the bedroom why do they not talk to their spouse about it?

On the other hand, are women bored in the bedroom and not talking to their man about it?

Another reason for husbands cheating were that they are insecure and fall for other women that make them feel special. Insecurity came up quite a bit in my research.

A lot of women felt that cheating husbands are in a mid life crisis and fall for a younger women that makes him feel better about himself. Sounds like insecurity again to me.

One of the top reasons women give for men becoming cheaters is because they do not communicate enough with their wife. Not only no communication in the bedroom but in all aspects of their lives.

Men Have No Concept Of Love

The author did not say this but I put the headline above in because this is what I seem to hear from a lot of women. Is this true that us men have no concept of what love is? Most women say that it is obvious that husbands do not love their spouse the way they used to or they would not be looking outside the home for another woman.

What I get from this and it is not surprising, there is a break down in communication between the cheating husbands and their spouses. Everyone of these with the exception of men are just dogs may have been prevented with more communication. Of course we know spouses will continue to cheat but I wonder how many relationships could have been saved with just something as simple as talking.