One Of The Best Ways To Catch A Cheater Is By Paying Close Attention To His Cell Phone.

To catch a cheater the cell phone is the number one tool that you can use to obtain evidence of his infidelity. If you have access to his cell phone when he is in the shower, asleep, or outside doing yard work check the phone to see if he has deleted incoming and outgoing phone numbers. If the numbers have not been deleted, write down any numbers that look unfamiliar AND any numbers that look familiar but questionable (i.e. several and/or lengthy calls from your best friends phone number).

When trying to catch a cheater be careful of friends, yes do not tell them what you are doing util you are sure you can rule them out as a possible partner for your spouse. May sound tough but it happens all the time. Your spouse with your best friend.

When you do this, you must keep the following in mind:

. Don’t get caught

. Once you write down these numbers, keep the list hidden in a place that he would NEVER look.

. No matter what you find, Do not confront him yet.

. You may need to do this periodically over a period of time to establish a pattern of calls to this person.

If you have access to the cell phone bill, you can also get this information from the bill.

Another way that the cell phone is a good tool is through the text messages. Again, if you can access his phone when he is not around, look at the text messages. Even though a pass code is needed to access voice mail, most cell phones do not require a pass code to access text messages.

Check your state laws on the legality of tapping into voice mail and text messages. Criminal charges may be possible in some areas for breaking into pass-word protected cell phones.

Check his cell phone regularly to see if he has text messages that he either sent or received that he forgot to delete. These messages can be a good clue to many things like, plans to meet, details of the relationship (how serious is it? Are they having sex or just talking to each other?) and who the other woman is.

If you find any suspicious text messages be sure to record the number that they came from or were sent to and cross reference them to the phone bill (if you have access to it) so that you can see how often calls or text messages are exchanged. You can also establish a pattern for these calls. Are they mainly exchanged at night, on weekends, during the day when he is at work, etc?

Finally, once you have obtained this information you should do a reverse telephone number look-up to determine who the number belongs to. Unlike reverse telephone number look-ups for LAN lines, cell phone reverse look-ups usually charge a fee to get information on the name of the owner of the number. Sources for this information include:cell-phone-pages.com , quick phone search , and reverse mobile.

Remember The Following When Trying To Catch A Cheater On His Cell Phone

. Do Not Get Caught

. Do Not Attempt to Call the Numbers

. Hold on to This Information

. Record Dates, Times, and Frequency of Calls

. Keep the Information Hidden in a Place that He Will Never Discover It So That You Can Use it When the Time Is Right; Even if You Have to Keep it at a Friend or Relative’s House

. Do not break the law

This may take some time but you need to stick with it to catch a cheater. Check his phone every chance you get. Make sure he is in the shower or somewhere you will be safe to spend a minute or two checking. It can be the best chance you have of proving that he is guilty of infidelity.